"Stress is a part of life. Stressors can vary in magnitude from daily hassles to traumatic events. Too much stress can harm our well-being. Chronic stress can contribute to the development of depression—a treatable illness with emotional, mental, physical, and social consequences. Depression is common during pregnancy and postpartum, reflecting the major life changes, role conflicts, hard work, and inadequate support with which many parents cope."
Cynthia Good Mojab (Coping with Perinatal Stress and Depression, 2015)
"The loss of a baby during pregnancy, during birth, or after birth can be an indescribably painful and devastating experience. In the beginning, parents may feel a sense of disbelief, numbness, and shock. They may feel like their dreams for the future have been cruelly wrenched from them. They may experience guilt and ask unanswerable questions: Why my baby? Why me? Their arms and hearts may ache with emptiness. The reactions of friends and family, co-workers and strangers may reflect ignorant insensitivity or the deepest compassion. Unfortunately, many societies do not fully recognize pregnancy loss and infant death as real losses, often leaving bereaved parents feeling invalidated and alone in their grief. Parents may feel great pressure to act as though they have “moved on” when they are actually still grieving and they have been changed forever by the living and the dying of their baby. They may quickly realize that few people are able to listen to them and to support them in their grief. Learning about the normalcy and healthiness of grief can be a critical step in finding ways to grieve well."
Cynthia Good Mojab (Pregnancy Loss and Infant Death: Understanding Grief and Trauma, 2014)
"The diversity of our world is staggering. Sex, gender, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, class, language, race, color, culture, ethnicity, nationality, marital status, geography, immigration, generation, religion, ability, size, and age are among the characteristics that make people similar to and different from each other. Systems of oppression and its concomitant, unearned privilege, corrupt these characteristics into fictitious markers of worth that determine the degree of access to power and opportunities afforded to individuals and their communities. Systems of privilege/oppression are a global and local reality.1 They vary in their exact nature from one place and time to another and are the cause of social inequities of all kinds, including in the field of breastfeeding."
Cynthia Good Mojab (Pandora’s Box Is Already Open: Answering the Ongoing Call to Dismantle Institutional Oppression in the Field of Breastfeeding, 2015)

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